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When You’re Ready to Fly… Fly.

January 8, 2013

I wanted to write a post to all of the people who have written that they are dying to take a trip like the one I am currently planning, but the time isn’t right. Just for the record… That is a legitimate reason not to pull the trigger… yet!

 

I previously posted that this is a trip that I have casually talked about for a looooong time. It wouldn’t have been responsible for me to take this trip two years ago. Some people would say it still isn’t, but when they start talking I just smile, nod, and imagine myself riding an elephant in a pointy hat and it doesn’t bother me anymore. My point is, that just because you aren’t booking plane tickets today doesn’t mean you won’t. Make up your mind that someday you are going to “click confirm”. Write it down. Commit part of your heart to it… when the right moment comes along, you will know. And when it does… don’t look back.

 

Time To Move

 

 

The last 15 days have been a whirlwind of internet searches, price comparisons, last minute purchases, vaccinations, insurance headaches, and phone calls to recordings that are followed by terrible songs while I wait to talk to a “real” person. I wish I was writing to say “and now it’s all taken care of!” but I’m not! Hey, I still have 4.5 days… so there is no reason to panic.  (ahhhhh!)

 

As I have been trying to get all of this taken care of, while still giving my company the 100%  it deserves from 8-5,  (let me tell you how hard it is not to google “things to do in Vietnam” while you are sitting at a desk with three computers!) I have realized that there will never be a “perfect time” to head off to the other side of the world. So while you are waiting for that “moment” to tell you the time is right…. don’t expect that moment will mean it’s going to be easy. Your moment probably won’t come as a visit from the vaccination fairy, telling you not to worry about malaria. You’re also probably not going to have some  travel apparition telling you that your trip won’t interfere with anything at home.

 

You are never going to be completely “ready.” Now, is 19 days enough time to prepare for what has become an 8-week trek through Asia and Australia? Probably not. But sometimes you just have to commit to a dream and trust that if you work hard enough you can pull it off. For me, this time, it meant I had 19 days. My point is that no matter how long you have to prepare, when the moment comes, you aren’t going to feel 100% ready. Click. Confirm. Anyway.

 

Am I kicking myself for buying a round-trip ticket when it turns out I won’t be using the return? YES! But if I had waited to know my entire itinerary… I would still be planning, not going.  Do I wish I had bought lightweight hiking clothes in the summer rather than in January? YES! Will it be inconvenient to carry a cooler around so that my Typhoid vaccine can stay refrigerated because I didn’t give myself enough time to take the full cycle before I leave the states? YES!  But I’m gonna do it. Because I’m doing it. The moment came. And I clicked confirm.

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4 Comments leave one →
  1. Suzanne Hamels permalink
    January 8, 2013 11:38 pm

    Love this, Mindy…I can “hear” the excitement in your writing, but…what? You won’t be using the return??

    • January 9, 2013 6:31 pm

      :) As it turns out… I added Australia to the trip, so now rather than coming home from Thailand, I will be coming home from Brisbane. Still coming home though!!

  2. January 10, 2013 6:58 am

    I love and hate planning for a trip. I’m in the midst of planning a big one now–not as impressive as yours, but still big for us. It’s a hassle. It sounds like you are going on an amazing trip. I wish you a happy, safe, and adventurous trip.

  3. Skip Nield permalink
    January 14, 2013 10:03 am

    WOW! Sorry to see you leave FC, you made my first weeks here comfortable working with you on the company website redesign. Enjoy all that this trip puts in front of you and live in your dream!

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